people say that the responsibility of your happiness is with yourself. in a bus only the crew needs to be worried about the journey and the passengers are supposed to enjoy the journey. if the passengers argue about their perceptions of the journey it is a disservice to the crew. in living too, just like the passengers are supposed to do you have to enjoy as much as possible your stay and as much as possible help those of your fellow persons to enjoy life. if you want to worry, then you have to worry for more number of people and things than just yourself and what you consider or claim as yours in real ways. some people on reading this passage would get a feeling that this is all good and is obvious to us in so many ways but it is of no use towards goodness. it is indeed difficult at many levels to change ages of reinforced behaviors of survival based on fears of loss and depending on where you live and what company you keep and also on how much you feel cared for and how many times you have realized you have been touched by goodness ( for example, patiently sit and recount an instance when you or your loved one recovered from a major illness and imagine how many different people came together from what all corners of the globe to make this recovery possible - the doctors, nurses, engineers, technicians, receptionists, admins, pharmacists, launderers, gym trainers, physiothetapists, traders, janitors, cooks, spiritualists, swamis, moulanas, priests, dancers, children, babies, drivers, mediapersons, journalists, animal trainers, musicians, singers, scientists, politicians, goondas, item dancers, designers, computer engineers, accountants, lawyers, pets...this is what is called as goodness, as they have different beliefs, different faiths, different orientation, different nationalities, different politics, different problems, somehow this confluence has come at one point and stopped by you, your family and did some frenzied well-meaning activity as you waited in bated breath and soon the recovery happened - from a precarious position you had been made safe again) i know that you can write a much better passage of what is in the parantheses because i have not stating anything new, it just became obvious of whatever that is already somewhere in your brain and i had just formed them in a way so that you get interested just like the many ads, videos, films, orations are trying to do. in trying to be helpful if you do not let live your children, your neighbour, your parent, your maid, you yourself by emphasizing on the fear of loss in much of your discourses and also do not demonstrate your goodness enough without bias and do not raise your words in gentle ways fearing loss of control then you will be adding to the reinforcement of deprecated behaviors many other peoples have successfully steered clear from in their quest for a better living. an interaction between persons of hugely different values creates lot of friction. at individual levels we see unending disputes which nobody wants to lose and at social groups level this is seen as huge discords resulting in cycles of violence. the best way to understand what kind of worthwhile passions to pursue is to see what kind of events and personas are written about in high terms in mainstream media, films and popular sites like wikipedia and try to believe things. it is very easy to read wrongly the portents of good stories just to be on the safe side of your political or religious leanings. when this happens even nice persons exhibit what can be termed as lumpen behavior, sometimes even displaying their gritted teeth menacingly towards people needing respect like your own parents and children. real soldiers do not do such things. warfare is a highly rational thing and is about battling adversity with fortitude. it is really a mind thing. please do not keep processing the negatives in the mind and show the world how socially responsible you are. don't stop anybody their journey and think you have done something for the society. you would only serve to satisfy your deep prejudices of which you haven't really tried to understand outside of selfish motives and comforts. be encouraging or at least start with encouraging words even if you do not have the capacity to support for whatever reasons. i have worked closely with soldiers and officers, i have worked closely with doctors and nurses, i have worked closely with engineers and technicians, i have closely with bankers and accountants, i have worked closely with business owners and entrepreneurs, i have known well some good lawyers and jurists, i have worked closely with farmers and villagers since i was a boy. i work with children and young people. i believe everybody is very strong about saving and sustaining life. life is to be enjoyed and sustained.

people say that the responsibility of your happiness is with yourself. in a bus only the crew needs to be worried about the journey and the passengers are supposed to enjoy the journey. if the passengers argue about their perceptions of the journey it is a disservice to the crew. in living too, just like the passengers are supposed to do you have to enjoy as much as possible your stay and as much as possible help those of your fellow persons to enjoy life. if you want to worry, then you have to worry for more number of people and things than just yourself and what you consider or claim as yours in real ways. some people on reading this passage would get a feeling that this is all good and is obvious to us in so many ways but it is of no use towards goodness. it is indeed difficult at many levels to change ages of reinforced behaviors of survival based on fears of loss and depending on where you live and what company you keep and also on how much you feel cared for and how many times you have realized you have been touched by goodness ( for example, patiently sit and recount an instance when you or your loved one recovered from a major illness and imagine how many different people came together from what all corners of the globe to make this recovery possible - the doctors, nurses, engineers, technicians, receptionists, admins, pharmacists, launderers, gym trainers, physiothetapists, traders, janitors, cooks, spiritualists, swamis, moulanas, priests, dancers, children, babies, drivers, mediapersons, journalists, animal trainers, musicians, singers, scientists, politicians, goondas, item dancers, designers, computer engineers, accountants, lawyers, pets...this is what is called as goodness, as they have different beliefs, different faiths, different orientation, different nationalities, different politics, different problems, somehow this confluence has come at one point and stopped by you, your family and did some frenzied well-meaning activity as you waited in bated breath and soon the recovery happened - from a precarious position you had been made safe again) i know that you can write a much better passage of what is in the parantheses because i have not stating anything new, it just became obvious of whatever that is already somewhere in your brain and i had just formed them in a way so that you get interested just like the many ads, videos, films, orations are trying to do. in trying to be helpful if you do not let live your children, your neighbour, your parent, your maid, you yourself by emphasizing on the fear of loss in much of your discourses and also do not demonstrate your goodness enough without bias and do not raise your words in gentle ways fearing loss of control then you will be adding to the reinforcement of deprecated behaviors many other peoples have successfully steered clear from in their quest for a better living. an interaction between persons of hugely different values creates lot of friction. at individual levels we see unending disputes which nobody wants to lose and at social groups level this is seen as huge discords resulting in cycles of violence. the best way to understand what kind of worthwhile passions to pursue is to see what kind of events and personas are written about in high terms in mainstream media, films and popular sites like wikipedia and try to believe things. it is very easy to read wrongly the portents of good stories just to be on the safe side of your political or religious leanings. when this happens even nice persons exhibit what can be termed as lumpen behavior, sometimes even displaying their gritted teeth menacingly towards people needing respect like your own parents and children. real soldiers do not do such things. warfare is a highly rational thing and is about battling adversity with fortitude. it is really a mind thing. please do not keep processing the negatives in the mind and show the world how socially responsible you are. don't stop anybody their journey and think you have done something for the society. you would only serve to satisfy your deep prejudices of which you haven't really tried to understand outside of selfish motives and comforts. be encouraging or at least start with encouraging words even if you do not have the capacity to support for whatever reasons. i have worked closely with soldiers and officers, i have worked closely with doctors and nurses, i have worked closely with engineers and technicians, i have closely with bankers and accountants, i have worked closely with business owners and entrepreneurs, i have known well some good lawyers and jurists, i have worked closely with farmers and villagers since i was a boy. i work with children and young people. i believe everybody is very strong about saving and sustaining life. life is to be enjoyed and sustained.
by Syed Ahamed

February 09, 2016 at 01:21PM
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